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7 ways to finding your Mr Right!
Ladies, when it comes to finding “Mr Right” do we really ask the “Right” kind of questions in order to find him?
Or do we settle for less in the hope that someday soon, he will magically appear?
We all have a rough idea of the physical side of our ideal man, but what about the mental and emotional side to him?
Want to know more….Then take a look below at my 7 top tips, to see if your new man really is the “Right” man for you!
Rule 1
What does your gut tell you? Yes ladies, our intuition is a powerful thing, so let’s make full use of it! When you are out with your date, whether it is your first or your fourteenth, what feeling do you have when you are around him, and what do you pick up on? Because nine times out of ten girls, your gut won’t lie to you!
Rule 2
What are his core values, and are they in line with yours? How does he feel about certain issues in the world? What is important to him? What does he adore? Or despise? How does his perceive other men or women perhaps? The more you find out, the more you will realise, if he is the “Right” man for you.
Rule 3
Is he trustworthy and loyal? In other words are his actions following his words or promises, his values and opinions? When he says he will do something, does he do it? Can he be trusted to complete a task? Will he support you in a crisis? And is he open about what he does? Time will always tell.
Rule 4
Capability, Strength, Determination, What are his aims and goals in life? And are they in line with yours? Could there be a joint venture in the horizon? Are you excited about his dreams too, or could they be similar? Or does he have his own hidden agenda that will lead you both eventually down quite separate paths?
Rule 5
Emotional Capacity, Maturity and Intelligence? When talking about an emotional subject, how does he react? What opinion does he offer? Does he understand, or can he empathise? Or does he see it quite differently? And can he step up to the mark when challenged? His eyes can tell a thousand tales, so go on girls, get to know him on a deeper level before you decide to commit.
Rule 6
What are his Habits and Cycles of Behaviour? So, your out on a lovely dinner date, and he lights up a cigarette, or drinks one too many beers, bites his fingernails or fidgets with his mobile…What is your reaction? Does this bother you, or can you override his little habits? Perhaps you notice in his leisure time that he enjoys just a little too much time in front of the footie or video games…again what is your first thought? Be honest with yourself, because he habits are likely to stay.
Rule 7
Does he control or protect? When going out together, does he tell you what to wear, or does he show concern that you may be a little too cold for instance. While looking for a new hairstyle in a magazine, does he point out what you should go for, or will he wait for you to ask his opinion? When visiting your parents, is he keen to tell you when you should leave? Or is he happy to go with the flow? All in all, do you prefer being told what to do, or do you prefer your independence of thought? We are all different, so you decide ladies!
Let us know all about your dating disasters and those that made it through to date number 2, or maybe even further….head to the forums and tell us your story!
About the author
Name: Jo'anne Davies
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Website: http://www.1stsuccess.com
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