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Body Language - the art of seduction
So it’s a Saturday night and you want some attention from that gorgeous man at the bar…well what are you waiting for ladies, get noticed, and get that man!
Here are my 10 top tips to Body Language Heaven! I have lot’s more ladies, but for now, read on…
1. The eyes have it!
Yes that’s right ladies make him know that you are interested firstly by briefly eyeing him up and down then just look away casually. Later on just take a quick look back and smile. In conversation, maintain eye contact just that little bit longer than you normally would. He’ll soon get the message!
2. The Body Brush!
So, you need to pop out to the loo? Or to the bar? Then why not get a little closer on the way to your destination, with a brief and light accidental body brush against him. Saying ‘oh, excuse me’ as you go!
3. Hair & Object Play!
Whether you’ve had a bad hair day or not, if you flick or play with your hair, you will definitely get noticed! So, why not spritz your hair with a quick shower of your favourite Parfum before leaving the house and let him smell how sweet you really are! Jewellery playing also works, such as necklace or earring play, but the main rule is to be subtle, just remember to do it every now and again.
4. The Lip Tint!
You can count on that man’s attention if you bite or lick your lower lip just once or twice during the course of the evening…make it look like a natural quirk that you sometimes do, when you say something a little naughty perhaps!
5. The Lean & Touch!
When you have finally got his full attention why not lean towards him just a little more than you would with a close friend and add the occasional touch, now and then, when you have made an interesting comment or brief joke. If he doesn’t get the message at this stage, he never will!
6. La Chimping!
Yes an endearing term for someone who cares about your personal grooming. So, during the course of the evening, (and even if no fluff exists) just pretend to take a small piece of fluff off his shoulder for him. Remember, girls, make it look natural though…It will do wonders! Trust me!
7. The Twister!
When you’re sat down nice and relaxed together and you need to check up where your friends are, or perhaps where your handbag is placed, keep your body facing him, legs crossed and raised, and twist the waist around with a nice straight back. This will give him a bird’s eye view of your waistline and curves!
8. The Knee Cross!
If he is still sitting across the bar from you make sure you have a fairly decent seat and cross those legs with purpose! Keep the knee every so slightly higher over the other leg than usual. If you are wearing a skirt ladies, your legs will look fab! And definitely get his approval!
9. Posture, Poise & Pose!
Never, Never, Ever get caught out by slouching ladies! Remember good posture is everything when standing, sitting, and walking. When you walk tall, you look younger, fitter, slimmer and over all more attractive! Practice makes perfect, so start today and get your way!
10. Mirroring!
So now that you’ve got your man, you want him to feel at ease in your company, Right? Ok, then ladies, read carefully…Mirroring is used by many hypnotherapists and even Psychologists to build Rapport with a new client’s. (I should know, I am one!) So, for every other move he makes, just copy it gently at first on a fairly subtle level, and help him to relate to you, at his own pace! Be subtle though, and don’t make it seem too obvious!
Clever you! Good Luck!
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Name: Jo'anne Davies
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